Everyone's heard the self-help mantra: We need to love ourselves before we can love anyone else. This may sound wise, but how many of us practice this? The truth is most people don't think about loving themselves, they think about loving others. We love our parents, siblings, and friends. We make time to communicate, love, and respect them but what about us? How would we know if we are loving ourselves if we are always in the middle of loving someone else?
From early on in our lives we are taught how to take care of ourselves not love ourselves. Yes there is a difference! Our families are constantly making sure we eat, go to work, pay our bills, pay your rent the list goes on! When was the last time someone told or asked you if you have taken out time for you? I can't! If we don't take the time to get to know ourselves and figure out our wants and needs no one is ever going to do it for you.
Everyone has experienced love, heartbreak, lies, deceit, hurt, but what are we doing to stop it? Sure we can blame others and point out their flaws and faults and make it about them but what about you? If you are constantly meeting people dating, having sex, breaking up and this is a constant cycle then you are Insane. You may not be insane in the clinical sense i.e. a (killer) etc. but you are engaging in insane behavior. The definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. You can't keep picking the same type of friends or romantic partners thinking that this time it will be different because it won't you. You will be let down every time because there is no change being made.
It's simple if you are constantly going through the same thing over and over, other people aren't the problem its you. You have to take the time to love yourself and set the standards for what you will and won't allow in your life. If you don't do this your life will be a huge roller coaster of emotions. Roller coasters are fun but at some point you have to get off and find your path.
If you can relate to any of this and are looking for a change life coaching is your answer. We put you in control of your life and help you discover the real you. Click on our contact page today to schedule your free 30 min consultation today! Let's begin the journey towards a new you today!
love and light,
Monica
From early on in our lives we are taught how to take care of ourselves not love ourselves. Yes there is a difference! Our families are constantly making sure we eat, go to work, pay our bills, pay your rent the list goes on! When was the last time someone told or asked you if you have taken out time for you? I can't! If we don't take the time to get to know ourselves and figure out our wants and needs no one is ever going to do it for you.
Everyone has experienced love, heartbreak, lies, deceit, hurt, but what are we doing to stop it? Sure we can blame others and point out their flaws and faults and make it about them but what about you? If you are constantly meeting people dating, having sex, breaking up and this is a constant cycle then you are Insane. You may not be insane in the clinical sense i.e. a (killer) etc. but you are engaging in insane behavior. The definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. You can't keep picking the same type of friends or romantic partners thinking that this time it will be different because it won't you. You will be let down every time because there is no change being made.
It's simple if you are constantly going through the same thing over and over, other people aren't the problem its you. You have to take the time to love yourself and set the standards for what you will and won't allow in your life. If you don't do this your life will be a huge roller coaster of emotions. Roller coasters are fun but at some point you have to get off and find your path.
If you can relate to any of this and are looking for a change life coaching is your answer. We put you in control of your life and help you discover the real you. Click on our contact page today to schedule your free 30 min consultation today! Let's begin the journey towards a new you today!
love and light,
Monica